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I had unprotected sex on February 1st. The guy I had sex with came in me a lot... My parents know. And The other day, I went to a free teen clinic to get a pregnancy test and a std test. Well obviously the pregnancy test was negative. I'm scared! And my dad bought me plan B. but I hid it in my cheek when he watched me "take" it. I just didn't want to. I couldn't. What do I do?! The nurse at the teen clinic said I am ovulating. And that it is the highest time for me to get pregnant.. She said there is a big chance that I am /: I don't wanna get an abortion IF i am pregnant. My family is against that. And I take Adderall and risperdal. Will those affect anything? My parents are really mad at me./: I told the guy that I had sex with, that I MIGHT be pregnant. And he told me he is gonna have to bail if I am. It made me really sad, cause he's been there for me a lot. And he just turned me down. I really like him too.. Oh well he's just like the last guy that left me because of this same issue. My mom said she doesn't want to see me anymore and that I'm a disgrace to the family. So I'm gonna move in with my dad in another city.. But what do I do from now? I have a counselor but I haven't seen her in a while. What do I say to the guy that I had sex with? How do I fix my relationship with my mom? She's in Seattle Washington right now for 10 more days so I can't really talk to her. I really need help. I can't even explain what I'm feeling right now. There's a lot of pressure./: oh and I have sore boobs, that's it. But I think it's too early for me to be experiencing that? No? I needed better answers. The others called me a whore.

Ok, so I'm gay, moved to a new school when I was 16 and quickly became best friends with this guy. He is a genuinely wonderful human being (bit of a bastard at times though), at first it was just a good friendship, we found so much in common and could talk for hours sometimes. We always had a playfully physical friendship from very early days, we're both tactile people. Things like hugs and siting on each others laps (when there was a lack of space - not just for the sake of it), we'd sometimes lay against each other when watching a film. It got to a point where we pretended to be gay with one another, we weren't coupley... you know how kids that age are. As things went on there came a point where I wasn't pretending and the place I felt most at home was on his lap or in his arms! Eventually he rumbled me and as you can imagine the closeness stopped, we didn't speak for months but eventually he wanted to make efforts to salvage what we could of an amazing friendship.... eventually we managed it! He has had a few long term girlfriend's since, that was hard for me but I found a way to genuinely to be happy for him. I want what's best for him and those relationships have made him happy. We see each other a lot less now but have got back into the habbit of hugging each other (the odd dance when we're out). About 2years ago, I met smeone else I truly cared about (this guy was actually bi though), we had sex and other forms of intimacy a few times, it was special, sex kisses etc had never been so perfect before.In the end he didnt want me back, I was devastated, heart broken for the 2nd time. My 1st love was one of the people who heped me through (but mainly other friends). The problem is it's been a year now and I have come to the conclusion that: the boy I fell in love with 6years ago, still is the owner of my heart... and I can't have his! I can't shake it off, I have tried everything, I've also tried just waiting for it to naturally subside but the heart wants what the heart wants. I have come to the conclusion that I will always deeply love him in one way or the other! He says he would like to come and stay at mine at some point (we live in different cities now), I am quite looking forward to it. He woud probably have to stay in my bed with me (like we did when we were school kids). I am having an ethical crisis, I have had an idea of how I can get this out of my system. I have craved for years to see his cock and maybe do ther things to it, I have seen everything else, his arse (beautiful) etc. If I see his cock and touch it maybe, it might kill the curiousity ellement, it might help. However all the number of time I have slept in the same bed as him, I have never done anything more then feel his arse (I know that doesn't mean I am whiter then white). In the past I have often been tempted to touch him in places I shouldn't but resisted because (aside from it being violation) I respect him and would never want to disrespect his body or his honour, like I say I love him. Part of me thinks whats the harm in pulling his pants down and looking, just don't touch! The other part of me see's this as a very disgusting way to behave, no matter what my purpose! Help!!!! I know he will never see me the way I see him - it's a biological impossibility! I'm just desperate to find some way of moving on! Will killing my curiosity help, or open up another pandoras box? I would quite literally die to protect him if it came to it. I was holding out for the 2nd guy, I thought it was going to be him but now I am in a worst emotional state then I was before! Its been 6 years! How long is it going to be before I escape this prison of Love? 10years? 15maybe? 20... will it ever stop hurting!

Or maybe even a film, considering how successful the Sex and the City movie was.

I was talking to this guy in Facebook who lives a couple cities over from me but we never spoke in real life. We're both 16. Well we were talking like friends but he started asking about past boyfriends and telling me he'd love to cuddle and kiss me and do dirty things. I told him I wouldn't have sex till marriage and no kisses unless we were dating. He kept asking if we were to go on a date where would we go. Well I got sick of those love questions so I changed the subject telling him to ask me a random question. He asked what part of *my city* do I live in. I asked what did he mean and he wanted to know where my house was by. I asked if he was trying to stalk me and he said "no??? I just want to know my sister lives there" I said "why do you care about where I live by though?" and he just stopped writing me. Did I say something wrong?

An old hookup from years ago tracked me down on FB. I hardly know the guy. We had sex only once at Trump's Taj Mahal. He kept trying to hookup again but I declined so he flies to a city near me with his mother UNINVITED and I declined again. He got real angry and impatient on the phone . I told him I have no reason to see him. His exact words were " Come here...you are nasty ..I thought we had something" . I never invited him to fly to US The same guy tracked me down on FB years later. He asked me if I remember him and said he's been " looking for me a long time and is so happy to finally find me" I rejected his request and lied I don't use my FB account. I asked him for his email and told him maybe I will email him I never did. This was a year ago but I have nightmares about him trying to hunt me down again. Based on his track record and his erratic personality - I have no idea what he is capable of or who I am dealing with. People said it's my fault for leading him on. I am not leading him on I am afraid for my safety if I tell him the truth that I do not want to have sex with him . He's flown to US to look for me in the past. He seems to have an impulsive personality so I used a more subtle and polite way to reject . If a girl is afraid a guy could get violent or doesn't know what kind of dangerous act he maybe be capable of - what is the best way to reject someone who could possibly be dangerous? Does it sound like he may " look for me" again ? DO you think he's still waiting for me to email him ? DO I OWE HIM SOMETHING ?

If a man was casually dating a girl for about two years, but for over a year and a half, he isn't know where she lived, he would just call her, she would show up, and they would go on dates, and sleep over, and they were not using any kind of birth control, and he was giving her oral sex, and he didn't know that much about her, but he knew she was alone,without family and friends, and he was froma really small town in an obscure far away place, and she was living in a big city for the first time in her life........ And then he started building this house, and he told the casual dating friend about the house he was building, but still they were p,aging mind games with each other through the inconsistent contact and inconsistent communication throughout the casual dating, then he introduced her to his family, though he was really nervous, because she was fom a different culture, and he allowed her to develop a relationship with his sisters children, and then he continued the mind games while dating her, and the house was almost finished, and he introduced her to his father and extended family, who didn't like her because she was from a foreign culture, but he was getting ready to move into the house, and then he asked her to marry him, but he didn't want to meet her family at all, and he really isn't want to marry her, he was just asking out of obligation, then he moved into the house and invited her to move in as well. But he wouldn't let her decorate the house, he wouldn't let her put magnets on the fridge, he wouldn't allow her to have a dog, he wouldn't let her bring her clothes, because he stud best he Had too many, then he brought his two single friends to come and live in the house and they wre having all these bachelor parties and running off and intentionally uninviting the girl, and when she insisted on coming along, ignoring and neglecting her ocially like she was invisible............then making her so uncomfortable that she isn't want o live in the house. Then suddenly he started dating the other girl, and dint tell the old girlfriend from three years, then he married the new Gil right away and gave the brand new house to the new girl, that he built with the previous girl......and the new girl was accepted by the family because he was from the same culture.and he just flat left the o,d girl from three years behind to live with octane dealers Ina rented room in an unstable environment, knowing she was alone, with no friends, and no family support. But when the girl wanted o move into the house, she insisted on a lease with the guy o give her entitlement o live there comfortably, but the guy isn't want to sign a lease with her, he wanted to get married, and was asking to marry her, but without a ring, and still didn't want to meet her familybir let her have a dog. Etc..........so the girl didn't really believe him, that he wanted to get married, because of his stupid rules, so then they stopped talking for just our months, and suddenly he married this other girl, and when he broke the news to the old girl, he told her,,,,,,,,,, you never believe in me,.,,,,,,,,,,,,,, but he married someone les, and not inured yo o to singles nightclubs with his single younger, bachelor friends, wearing his wedding ring, but looking for young, nubile girls to gawk at and talk too., without his wife.........?.......................he was 28 at the time, in the singles scene for about three years. The old girlfriend tht he left behind was absolutely devastated, because she had been spending all her free time with him, and flt very misled by being introduced of the family and the house being paraded in front of her..................if you were this girl, or the guy, or the family or the new wife..........what would you think?

I had sex with a European guy I hardly knew at a casino years ago. I was young and careless , he was close to my age and I was intrigued by his fancy European style. He was well dressed and had an accent and the attraction ended there. I did not enjoy the bedroom action and I did not find him as attractive with his expensive designer clothing off. He kept calling afterwards to hookup again inviting back to the casino I declined. So he flies to my nearby city UNINVITED with his mother. I declined again. He got impatient and angry called me " nasty" and acted devastated saying he thought we had "something" Years later he FB friend requests me telling he's been "looking for me a long time and is happy to find me" . I messaged him I remember who he is but I declined his friend request. I lied and said I don't spend much time on FB and he can give me his email and maybe I'll email him. I never did I am afraid that this person will try to "look for me" again in the future. This person obviously has a romantic fantasy about our hookup at Trump's Taj Mahal years ago. I have no idea what kind of person I am dealing with here. My only reason for not wanting to see him again is because I do not want to have sex with him and I am not attracted to him. Do I owe him this explanation ? Do I owe him more sex or a commitment ? Why does he act like I owe him something ? I do not even want to explain to him why I am blowing him off because being that honest with him will give him the wrong idea that we are close. Does he sound like a weirdo stalker or just a really romantic guy from Italy ? And do you think he may stalk me again in the near future ? I erased my FB profile. He knows my first and last name and he flew to U.S to try to " look for me" Am I a nasty ho or a bitch just because I do not want anything to do with him ? Why do I feel guilty and like I owe him something ? Do I ? This happened 10 months ago and I feel like I owe him something Do I really have to contact him back after almost a year to tell him " the truth" ? IMO - he is not worth my time or deserving of any honesty. I have no idea who I am dealing with and he seems like they type that can get crazy anddangerous when rejected.

I have a bf and we're both extremely serious for each other.We are gonna tell our parents about our relation in around 3-4 years.He is a man with a lot of values.He never had a past.I am his first crush and first gf.But i have had a past.I had a bf named tom for 2 and half yrs and i even got physical with him.the thing is i had a pathetic childhood.,i have seen my dad really going mad at my mom.sometimes even hitting her.also i knew that my dad was cheating on my mom.this led me to have a relation with tom.Tom kept asking me to get physical but initially i refused.But meanwhile i came to know that my dad was also visiting prostitutes.so i came under the pressure that tom will leave me if i wont let him get physical with me.And i was very sure that i will marry tom.And so i allowed him to that.But i wasn't comfortable at all.I am still a virgin but we did all the other things.i was just under pressure that even tom will cheat on me due to lack of sex just the way my dad cheated on mom.Now i have told my current bf that we did nothing more than kissing.I lied to him! Also he doesn't know about my dad.Nobody knows this except me and my ex bf.Now i am feeling very guilty that i lied to my bf.He wasn't even okay with my kissing him because tom turned out to be a real jerk.I am afraid that if i'll tell him that i have done a lot of physical things with tom in past he won't understand and accept me.May be he'll understand once he knows about how my mental condition was due to my dad,which made me do all that..I want to tell him the truth before our 1st anniversary which is after 3-4 months.we are in a long distance relationship.he'll come to my city 2 times before our anniversary.What should i do?Should i tell him about the physical stuff 1st time he comes..And then let him accept me without knowing about my dad.And then tell about my dad so that he can relate and think"oh,that's why she did it!" OR should i tell about my dad first,let him understand my condition and then tell about the physical stuff? please answer me people.Please. QUESTION IS-what should i tell first?about my dad or about my ex?? ITS URGENT.PLEASE ANSWER ME.I AM DYING INSIDE.NO RUDE COMMENTS OR REMARKS PLEASE.THANK U ALL IN ADVANCE!

I am a nigerian raised in England and my girlfreind is spanish and been in England for 4 years. I am having some serious difficulties. We do not seem to able to be together for more than an hour without argueing. Her parents being from a small time town in the north of spain are racist as she says everyone is in spain. She is not? When we argue she does not hesitate to call me a black nigger and, I quote, threatens to take our unborn baby, i quote, nigger to Spain to have a really bad life as it will be black. I then call her a spanish slut. Things escalate to me shouting as she just blabbers on and on turning paranoid suspitions into previous events and she calls the police who then turn up and throw me out the house that I pay rent, bills, furnished, etc. When i try to explain to her that it is bad calling someone something like that she doesn't get it and says i call her a spanish slut. Which i add only takes place after she has called me something racist. She even calls me by my nigerian name and then proceeds to do the african tribe masaiI jump in a mocking manner and persists even when asked to stop. very much love this lady and i do whatever I can to make her feel happy which includes spending every penny of my wages on her knowing i will have nothing to eat in work to not socialising with my freinds and neglecting my band as she has said she doesn't want to meet anyone. Before i had a job she would call me loser on any given oppertunity and tell me my kids from a previous relationship dont love me and i cant even afford to see them. I may add I was a lapdancer that brought me in a substantial amount of money for just one or two days work. She insisted I leave. I did. Money problems all around, rent arrears, etc. When things got low she said I should do it again but this time take her with to make her feel secure. I agreed and off we went. Money was okay for a bit. Then I started getting job offers to work behind bars in clubs. She would not allow it as she was affraid of girls coming on to me. I declined the jobs and r money fell again. My bro got me a job and i work stupid long hours delivering drink to pubs, etc. i've brought her along too but somehow she says occasionally that i am meeting girls. She resents the fact that i have a degree equiv in IT and a few modules in OU and says that i am smarter than her ex's and with me she seems to be in a shadow. She doesn't want me to be smarter than her. She tried to get a job and asked me to come round as she put in cvs. no success. She then said it was me who ruined the chance as i was black. I told her to go alone and waited around the corner and still no job. She asked me to ask the resteraunts and pubs i deliver to for jobs and i did and was kicked off on cos she didnt want that job, doesnt want to meet people or something. A month later she asked me to ask again and she was ready. When it comes to a header. She cries and admitts its her fault as she has had a psychologist for many years and a councellor and she needs it again and to help her find one. I do and she turns around and says i shouldn't have helped her get one and i was stupid for doing that. I should have said no she was sane. what? we moved from bristol centre cos she hated it to a quiet greener area cos she wanted it and the house she said was perfect. every since i had the tenancy agreement sorted out so she cant have me thrown out by police, coincidently, she hates it and wants to move back to a city center for the amenities even tho bristol or other bustling area is one bus ride away.To top it off her parents call her periodically telling her to kill my baby as I'm black and the baby will not be formed proper, she is too young (in spain), 25, to have kids and our finances are too low. When they do this i come home and get it in the neck about money, life, baby, etc and she says it's not cos of her parents. Sex. I dont get any. so unfort i debase myself by hand. She flips at this and says it is cheating and not to watch porn. she doesnt and i shouldnt. This is over the phone whilst i'm in work crying and screamin as i'm the worst of her really REALLY dodgy ex's. I come home and find that she has been gorging herself on lesbian porn. Goose and the gander much? I got her onto an ou course, a laptop and desk. The next day after the laptop she called me a dirty nigger. I finish work at late hours and would like to come home and chill out but she asks me to help out house work, etc. no sexist but what has she been doing all day. I do apreciate the sandwichs once a month.I leave at 06 back 8.I clean up all the time just because i have a vagina and starts ranting.she's typing all the time on internet in spanish to god knows who to and i never ask even when i wake up and she's startlled as she types sometimes closing windows as not to show me the things she types. God there is so much i can go on for ages. It has occured to me to break up with her but i wanna know if there is something ican do. maybe to know of the what the issues in her mind might be. Please in depth answers. Thankyou.

Since I was little I've been trying to find women to fill an empty space in me... I think it is because my mom has not spent much time with me. It started at school. I always tried to gain teachers' attention (female teachers). I did everything to get noticed, I bought stuff for them like candies, I was little so... The problem is that when I was 11 or 12 I was more interested in liking them than playing with my friends, I needed to feel special, protected and loved. It continued until I was 17 or 18. Then I started to go to my university (where I'm now, I'm 20 btw) and it's the same, I'm so sick of this necessity!! here I found a great professor, her name is Carla, she is awesome!! she treats me like a princess, she is always telling me how good student I am! I love her so much!! I've been passing through depression cause I'm all by myself in a new city and although I have some friends, none of them are close, therefore I feel completely alone. She is always worried about me, she asks me almost everyday if I have breakfast and when I answer NO she worries a lot, she even offers me money to get sth to eat... she acts like a mom, doesn't she? despite the fact that teachers at universities are not caring or affectionate, she actually is! and that's the reason why I love her, she doesn't do this with my classmates , so it means I'm important to her, and that's what I wanted to obtain. In the last conversation we had, she told me she loved me as a mother and then she embraced me. It was amazing <3 My priority is to find a woman who can replace my mother, instead of finding a boyfriend/girlfriend (I'm bisexual, but I have a preference for women) it isn't normal, is it? I'm damaged :/ Actually I cant have a lover, i dont know why , i dont feel comfortable with that kind of love, I'm too immature (sex only, no relationships) and I'm still a girl who needs her mom to love her. I am screwed, aren't I? I think I need to get help, going to therapy , I dont know :S So .. are these mommy issues?????

This sounds wierd but I saw an episode of sex and the city and he would chew and spit out the food and I did that once when I didn't want to take in the extra calories. I read online that cause acid to come up and make ulcers so I didn't do it again, but I've been wondering if the acid would cause previous food eaten to be burned faster. Would it?

I have this girl for school i like alot but i dont even talk to her. Were both high school seniors. i also can like feel she likes me the way she looks at me always playing with her hair she looks at me when im not looking but i can tell shes looking lol.. she is soo pretty she dresses so good not showing anything and i like it so much i know for a fact she's still a vigin and 18 you can say shes very conservative the kind of girl you would feel proud to take to your parents.. and i know sex with her would be amazing even if i had to wait till we got married. but i am the other way around always partying smoking weed drinking having sex etc..She so smart but i am also very smart left handed always got 90 through middle and elementry were both going to a 4 year university.im just partying a little in high school the question is this she is going to college here in the city we live in but i want to go somewhere else out of town.. i would love love to go to college here with her and just be with her but going out of town and partying in the dorms kinda has my mind too. i know that not parting just to be with her is totally worth it cause im like 90% sure it would work but idk sometimes i feel shes too good for me but i also remember that if its meant to be its meant to be.. and i think shes like i like him alot but if he dosent make the move i aint going to do it because of how family based she is.. she gives me the hints and we dont even talk.. but i know she likes me and would love to be with me its like a gut feeling.i know if i leave i migth party and have fun but at the end of the day she would be worth over all that.. cause shes so pretty and i love her personality. just wanting to get opinions dont want to be an old man thinking back what could of been lol... I kinda of feel ive already had fun and she is the best i would love a life with her.. but maybe in college i meet someone else.. i dont know all i know is that i like her and she likes me but we dont talk.. and i kinda like it that way better so i we get together i can talk to her about that see what she was thinking and tell her too what i felt.. i dont know i dont know what to do.. lol need some opinions. cause i know that if i leave it would never happen she kinda makes me feel that way that she would wait for me till college but if i leave it would be all over

If any one has seen the movie kids please answer. I LOVE movies but not like mysteries and scary movies. I like movies that are about teen agers and stuff because I can relate to them in ways. I mostly like 80s 90s and early 2000s movies that were made in those years. But I wanna watch another movie that is kinda like kids. You with the drugs, alcohol, sex. Ya know city life. Not that some that stuff is good haha so pleaseeeee suggest a movie to me. :-)))))))

I feel lonely,sad,unhappy.These feelings are killing me. I'm usually a happy upbeat person.You never catch me on a negative one.But lately I hate myself and my life for no apparent reason.I cant be bothered with life,I never make the effort with University work.I'm starting to hate my course.My life is really boring. I'm not satisfied with anything,going out partying/meals/sleepovers don't excite me no more.Also I keep looking into the future and basically waiting for my life to start,I want things that I cant achieve now and its killing me.I REALLY want to be successful and have that luxurious life it hurts.Also I have never had a BF in my life and lots of boys stare and flirt with me and compliment but it doesn't mean anything to me. I'm finding it EXTREMELY hard to like someone,there isn't anyone that is worth a shot.They all expect sex but I want to keep my virginity until I get married.But I really want to have someone in my life that I can see myself with, I don't just wanna waste my time on pricks.But clearly Mr Right is no where in my city.At 19 years i shouldn't be feeling like this.I'm a mess! MILLIONS of people have really really bad lives and they're happy and i have a decent life and i'm unhappy and cant change my mood :(

When someone asks Samantha why she doesn't go out with black guys. I think I deleted the episode of my computer by accident, and now I don't remember which episode was it.

I feel lonely,sad,unhappy.These feelings are killing me. I'm usually a happy upbeat person.You never catch me on a negative one.But lately I hate myself and my life for no apparent reason.I cant be bothered with life,I never make the effort with University work.I'm starting to hate my course.My life is really boring. I'm not satisfied with anything,going out partying/meals/sleepovers don't excite me no more.Also I keep looking into the future and basically waiting for my life to start,I want things that I cant achieve now and its killing me.I REALLY want to be successful and have that luxurious life it hurts.Also I have never had a BF in my life and lots of boys stare and flirt with me and compliment but it doesn't mean anything to me. I'm finding it EXTREMELY hard to like someone,there isn't anyone that is worth a shot.They all expect sex but I want to keep my virginity until I get married.But I really want to have someone in my life that I can see myself with, I don't just wanna waste my time on pricks.But clearly Mr Right is no where in my city.At 19 years i shouldn't be feeling like this.I'm a mess! MILLIONS of people have really really bad lives and they're happy and i have a decent life and i'm unhappy and cant change my mood :(

So I've known this guy for a 2months he's aged 22 and I'm 21.I got to know him off Facebook he randomly added me.Anyway he's sorta famous in my country as he's a professional rugby player.I play rugby too that's what got us talking alot through messages.Then after the first day he just gave me his mobile number without me having to ask which was strange I thought.Anyway we text and video Skype alot.Only problem I had to move out of the city he's living currently in due to rugby its only for four months.after four months I'll be living in the same city as him.He anyway is always calling me beautiful ,gorgeous and lots of flirting and telling me he loves me.Hes even made up cute nicknames for me.Like yesterday he texted me and I told him I was at dinner and he was like oh a date with what guy?I just told him it was a girl mate of mine.I couldn't understand why he asked.hes always the first to Skype and text me.All during Christmas he wanted to meet up with me but I was in the different city.So I said perhaps meet up in jan when I suggested that he had rugby matches in other countries which is true and understandable.But tonight I asked him if he would be around in feb as I've a week off rugby and he said he would be abroad with his friends to go to rugby matches he would be busy.The worst part is I'm developing feelings for him even though I've never met him in person :( He definitely is single he hasn't been in a relationship for the past year and a half he told me.hes not after sex cos he's actually a genuine guy.do you think he has feelings for me?or is he trying to avoid me?

Im seeing this guy who's really easy to get along with and we have alot of fun times and share common interests. Especially our friends get along like a house on fire. Ive been seeing him about twice a week if not, twice a fortnight over drinks everytime we head out for the weekend. Since last November. Im not after a relationship mainly because Ive had a BAD run with them and Im not the clingy type because of it. Im very independant. My friends point me out as "The one who doesnt do relationships" in the group. I'm quite happy to have him as a friend with benefits but the other day he said we may have to talk and sent me a text message asking "Not sure I want to keep this going? But we will talk about it! Still only sex though right?!" In which I confusingly replied to him saying "Nothing more. Nothing Less." Only coz I asked him if he's gonna be in town this weekend coz he randomly pops up like that. He's just come out of a very long relationship (Around 6 years) and he seems happy so I dont expect anything out of all this. This got me confused because Im not sure why he would say that. Maybe Im giving off some kind of relationship vibe? Some kind of .. I dunno... The reason why I'm really confused is because he lives about 5 hours away in the city! He's extremely attractive with his pretty boy features and he could honestly get any girl he wanted but he still travels that far to meet up! He rings me when he's out at the pub with the boys and talks to me for hours and asks what Im up to all the time. So I dont understand what hes doing! He kindve acts like a gods gift to women half the time and I just shake my head, mock him and happily do my own thing. Im pretty laidback and confident like that. He always always always comes back to me 5 mins later. On Wednesday I told him my mates are gigging at the pub tomorrow night and now he is thinking about coming up see me at the pub when he actually has to drive home for a farewell at his place the day after! He is nuts. Seriously. The he's rockin up back in town this Saturday and told me he needed to get his footy boots and passport! And then asks me what Im doing. I mean.. Cmon! What do people mean when they say theyre not sure they want to keep this going when its him clearly doing all the effort to just 'Hang out'. Who drives 5 hours to hang out? Im not sure what to come of this. Its like he's warning me he doesnt want a relationship when it's not me...Hes the one showing signs to prove otherwise. But I dont want to bring it up as an issue. Is this maybe male reverse phycoligy?! I can usually read men but I just cant read this one. Any Ideas on where his mind is at? Sorry for the lonnnng novel sized entry Im high on coffee

So i met him on facebook and we started chatting for 2 months,text and call everyday until i came in to visit my hometown(where he lives)to see family and meet him.We spent the weekend together,no sex just cuddling and kiss.I live accros country 3000miles and it was so hard leaving and saying goodbye.He agreed it was the same.Well now here i am 2 weeks later in my new city across country and he does not contact me at all.I text and said i missed him he said he missed me too i told him come see me he said he will try when he gets his tax return money.But he never initiates contact with me..even now when i text him he doesnt reply as quick.Its such a bummer cause there really was a lot of chemistry in person.Any advice?

I have a bf and we're both extremely serious for each other.We are gonna tell our parents about our relation in around 3-4 years.He is a man with a lot of values.He never had a past.I am his first crush and first gf.But i have had a past.I had a bf named tom for 2 and half yrs and i even got physical with him.the thing is i had a pathetic childhood.,i have seen my dad really going mad at my mom.sometimes even hitting her.also i knew that my dad was cheating on my mom.this led me to have a relation with tom.Tom kept asking me to get physical but initially i refused.But meanwhile i came to know that my dad was also visiting prostitutes.so i came under the pressure that tom will leave me if i wont let him get physical with me.And i was very sure that i will marry tom.And so i allowed him to that.But i wasn't comfortable at all.I am still a virgin but we did all the other things.i was just under pressure that even tom will cheat on me due to lack of sex just the way my dad cheated on mom.Now i have told my current bf that we did nothing more than kissing.I lied to him! Also he doesn't know about my dad.Nobody knows this except me and my ex bf.Now i am feeling very guilty that i lied to my bf.He wasn't even okay with my kissing him because tom turned out to be a real jerk.I am afraid that if i'll tell him that i have done a lot of physical things with tom in past he won't understand and accept me.May be he'll understand once he knows about how my mental condition was due to my dad,which made me do all that..I want to tell him the truth before our 1st anniversary which is after 3-4 months.we are in a long distance relationship.he'll come to my city 2 times before our anniversary.What should i do?Should i tell him about the physical stuff 1st time he comes..And then let him accept me without knowing about my dad.And then tell about my dad so that he can relate and think"oh,that's why she did it!" OR should i tell about my dad first,let him understand my condition and then tell about the physical stuff? please answer me people.Please. ITS URGENT.PLEASE ANSWER ME.I AM DYING INSIDE.NO RUDE COMMENTS OR REMARKS PLEASE.THANK U ALL IN ADVANCE!

I am 22 and I have a fwb relationship with a 27 year old guy. Its been about a month and we do the deed about 3x a week. It's great and I have no feelings or attachment towards him( I just want the sex) I usually go right after but for the past week he keeps asking me to cuddle and spend the night because he doesn't want to be lonely he also asks me to go with him to the movies or club( he's new to the city and doesn't know anyone really). He also tries to make me wear his shirt and tells me how I look, asks me if any guys has hit on me and if I am taking to anyone else. He also wants to talk about his personal life and work. My question is, is he getting attached or feelings? I don't feel the same and wonder if I should break it off?

This guy is my coworker. We've been hanging out as just friends for several months now under the premise that we're both new to this city and single and should go out and explore it. I could tell from the beginning that he was attracted to me. I was attracted to him too, but gave clear indication on our outings that I wasn't going to hook up with him (since we work together). He never tried to make a move on me, just a hug at the end of the night. Well, we went out again about three weeks ago and at the end of the night he finally kissed me. We joked afterward that we can't tell anyone about it and that maybe now hopefully it's "out of our system." To be honest, I was the one who steered the conversation this way. The next few weeks at work I ignored him because I really don't want to jeapordize my professional reputation, but kissing him made me feel like "Whoa, I think maybe I really like this guy." Meanwhile, he's been in my office like a puppy dog, asking me out to lunch, made me a bunch of mixes, etc. We finally hung out again last Friday. We went out to a nice dinner and then a romantic lookout spot. We were having a great time. We ended up back at my place and we ended up sleeping together. I can't believe I did that so soon, but, it's what happened. Afterwards he said a couple strange things, like "I was so worried that you'd wake up the day after I kissed you and think it was a terrible mistake." and "Do you want me to go home so you don't have to face the mistake you just made (sleeping with him) first thing in the morning?" I told him to stay though and he did. I'm sure I sound like a complete prude or idiot or both, but I've never ever had sex with someone outside of a relationship before, so I am sort of worried that our relationship will only be about sex and hooking up since I slept with him so soon. But I figured I'd just play it cool and see what happens. This week at work has been the same as the last few, so at first I thought, no biggie, he's genuinely interested and not just using me. But then on Wednesday he asked me if I wanted to get together on Saturday night...for dinner at his place. Everyone says that if a guy only wants to hang out "at his place" he only wants one thing. Then this morning, he sent me a text full of innuendo about hanging out tomorrow. It wasn't nasty or anything, but definitely was about looking forward to hooking up again. Not exactly a classy text you'd send a girl you genuinely liked. Does he just really want to be friends with benefits? Did I irreversibly send this relationship down that path by sleeping with him too soon? I'm sure I sound like a complete prude or idiot or both, but I've never ever had sex with someone outside of a relationship before, so I'm worried that he'll only be interested in sex with me since I slept with him. Is this guy just wanting a friends with benefits? I know this is going to make me sound like a prude but I've never, ever had sex outside of a relationship before, so I just don't know how to read this situation. I feel like I'm getting mixed signals.

Ok, so I have been with this guy for a while. I truly fell in love with him and was so into him for over a year before I decided that I wanted to actually start talking to him, because I knew he was an undercover man whore (sorry haha). In other words, this guy was in his first year of uni and all he could care about was partying, girls and sex. So when we started dating he was still going to night clubs and I didn't really mind thinking oh well I cannot say much, but then one night a week after we officially got together (after 2 months of dating), he slept with another girl and lied to me about it. I found some texts on his phone and he told me how he had kissed her only. This obviously hurt me, because I have not been with any other guy and kind of gave him "my all". As in, I went all the way with him. He changed totally after this incident, stopped interfering with other girls and even talking to other girls and became the perfect boyfriend. Still. I see that girl because we are in the same university. I see his "fuck friends" from the past, and I just cannot seem to accept it, I do not know what happens to me, when I see them I get so sick that I feel like throwing up and crying at the same time. That one special thing that I've only given him he's given to everyone else in our city... I do not know what to do, because I love him and he clearly loves me too, he has changed so much for me but still. I always get moody and annoyed and quiet when I meet on any of the girls, specially the one he had a one night stand with while being with me. (And just to explain that night he was really drunk, even tho he himself said that alcohol is no excuse) What should I do? Should I cheat too to "feel better" or should I just accept it and forget it? Or should I leave him?

So I've known this guy for a 2months he's aged 22 and I'm 21.I got to know him off Facebook he randomly added me.Anyway he's sorta famous in my country as he's a professional rugby player.I play rugby too that's what got us talking alot through messages.Then after the first day he just gave me his mobile number without me having to ask which was strange I thought.Anyway we text and video Skype alot.Only problem I had to move out of the city he's living currently in due to rugby its only for four months.after four months I'll be living in the same city as him.He anyway is always calling me beautiful ,gorgeous and lots of flirting and telling me he loves me.Hes even made up cute nicknames for me.Like yesterday he texted me and I told him I was at dinner and he was like oh a date with what guy?I just told him it was a girl mate of mine.I couldn't understand why he asked.hes always the first to Skype and text me.All during Christmas he wanted to meet up with me but I was in the different city.So I said perhaps meet up in jan when I suggested that he had rugby matches in other countries which is true and understandable.But tonight I asked him if he would be around in feb as I've a week off rugby and he said he would be abroad with his friends to go to rugby matches he would be busy.The worst part is I'm developing feelings for him even though I've never met him in person :( He definitely is single he hasn't been in a relationship for the past year and a half he told me.hes not after sex cos he's actually a genuine guy.do you think he has feelings for me?or is he trying to avoid me?

I met him on facebook a couple months ago and we chatted/text/call everyday for 2 months until i came in (my hometown is where he lives, we went to the same highschool) i came in for a visit to see family and met him,we spent the weekend together and i fell for him,no sex just cuddling and kissed.I think about him a lot still and he said he will try and visit me (i live accross country 3000miles away) I miss him dearly and it was so sad saying goodbye to him.BUT now that i am back in my city so far away he doesnt contact me anymore,he replies to me when i contact him but never initiates. Any advice?

Been with my boyfriend 5 months. At the start we had sex at least once a week as we only see each other at weekends we live in different cities. Sex was amazing and adventurous. We haven't had sex in 3 weeks now even though we see each other every week. He is still holding hands, making future plans with me, looking at me in that way and kissing me but not initiating anything sexual. I was at his house today and he didn't want me to stay the night as he's not feeling well. Now he does have a cough at the moment and is on medication but it's been 3 weeks. And before he was always initiating. Don't think he's cheating. He is a bit religious, even though we have already had sex, thoughts please. I'm 26 he's 28

I'M WHITE & MARRIED BLACK WOMAN 20-Jan-06 05:05 pm I'm white and married a black woman. We've been happily married and financially free for many years now. She has four sisters and two brothers: Sister 1: Has 6 children by 4 black males...none of the males volunteered child support...only 2 are barely involved in children's life. She is now nearly completely neglecting her children as she lives part time with a black man. He wants nothing to do with the children and encourages her to neglect them. Sister 2: Been dating a married black man for ten years. He refuses to divorce. She's a fool. Sister 3: Great person; wants to date black men only. But she is a tad overweight and educated...black guys are indimidated and get off by hurting her feelings. She'll learn. Sister 4: Stable marriage (yeah), but to an illiterate momma's boy with crappy job. Brother 1: Druggie who can't hold a job. Has multiple children by multiple women. Keeps "playing the field" though he has STDs. Brother 2: Flunking out of college, because he ducks out of college in the middle of the week to have sex with some girl in another city. White American men are known for being the best husbands all over the world. Of course, I do know of some great black husbands and some awful white husbands, but by and large, white American men make the best husbands. Further. Though most American white men don't know it, they are usually too good for their American (whatever color) wives. American women, generally, have simply lowered the priority of family. Foreign women (specifically Pacific-American women) make the best wives. I personally know dozens of GREAT black women who would be much better off with a white husband than their black, neglectful, and abusive boyfriends or husbands. Yet they are too cowardly to overcome the peer-pressure of 'blacks should marry blacks'. They can't even 'fight the power' of ridiculous, immature peer-pressure...and thus have to usually tolerate some slick-talking blowhard who will run away at the first scent of responsibility (completely backed by his mother of course). As Martin Luther King said "I have a dream ... where little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls and walk together as sisters and brothers." That is a mature concept. "Black should marry Blacks" and "Whites should marry Whites" is an immature concept. Free yourself people. Further, if you REALLY want to help black men, treat them as adults. Adults are accountable for their actions (such as being horrible fathers/husbands). Currently, black men are generally not accountable. When enough black women vocalize this and leave their @sses behind, black mem will eventually adopt a more mature way of living...women are that important to us. And the penis thing...myth. ;-)

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Sodom and Gomorrah Destroyed 1 The two angels arrived at Sodom in the evening, and Lot was sitting in the gateway of the city. When he saw them, he got up to meet them and bowed down with his face to the ground. 2 "My lords," he said, "please turn aside to your servant's house. You can wash your feet and spend the night and then go on your way early in the morning." "No," they answered, "we will spend the night in the square." 3 But he insisted so strongly that they did go with him and entered his house. He prepared a meal for them, baking bread without yeast, and they ate. 4 Before they had gone to bed, all the men from every part of the city of Sodom--both young and old--surrounded the house. 5 They called to Lot, "Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us so that we can have sex with them." 6 Lot went outside to meet them and shut the door behind him 7 and said, "No, my friends. Don't do this wicked thing. 8 Look, I have two daughters who have never slept with a man. Let me bring them out to you, and you can do what you like with them. But don't do anything to these men, for they have come under the protection of my roof." 9 "Get out of our way," they replied. And they said, "This fellow came here as an alien, and now he wants to play the judge! We'll treat you worse than them." They kept bringing pressure on Lot and moved forward to break down the door. 10 But the men inside reached out and pulled Lot back into the house and shut the door. 11 Then they struck the men who were at the door of the house, young and old, with blindness so that they could not find the door. 12 The two men said to Lot, "Do you have anyone else here--sons-in-law, sons or daughters, or anyone else in the city who belongs to you? Get them out of here, 13 because we are going to destroy this place. The outcry to the LORD against its people is so great that he has sent us to destroy it." 14 So Lot went out and spoke to his sons-in-law, who were pledged to marry his daughters. He said, "Hurry and get out of this place, because the LORD is about to destroy the city!" But his sons-in-law thought he was joking. 15 With the coming of dawn, the angels urged Lot, saying, "Hurry! Take your wife and your two daughters who are here, or you will be swept away when the city is punished." 16 When he hesitated, the men grasped his hand and the hands of his wife and of his two daughters and led them safely out of the city, for the LORD was merciful to them. 17 As soon as they had brought them out, one of them said, "Flee for your lives! Don't look back, and don't stop anywhere in the plain! Flee to the mountains or you will be swept away!" 18 But Lot said to them, "No, my lords, please! 19 Your servant has found favor in your eyes, and you have shown great kindness to me in sparing my life. But I can't flee to the mountains; this disaster will overtake me, and I'll die. 20 Look, here is a town near enough to run to, and it is small. Let me flee to it--it is very small, isn't it? Then my life will be spared." 21 He said to him, "Very well, I will grant this request too; I will not overthrow the town you speak of. 22 But flee there quickly, because I cannot do anything until you reach it." (That is why the town was called Zoar.) 23 By the time Lot reached Zoar, the sun had risen over the land. 24 Then the LORD rained down burning sulfur on Sodom and Gomorrah--from the LORD out of the heavens. 25 Thus he overthrew those cities and the entire plain, including all those living in the cities--and also the vegetation in the land. 26 But Lot's wife looked back, and she became a pillar of salt. 27 Early the next morning Abraham got up and returned to the place where he had stood before the LORD. 28 He looked down toward Sodom and Gomorrah, toward all the land of the plain, and he saw dense smoke rising from the land, like smoke from a furnace. 29 So when God destroyed the cities of the plain, he remembered Abraham, and he brought Lot out of the catastrophe that overthrew the cities where Lot had lived.

So I've known this guy for a 2months he's aged 22 and I'm 21.I got to know him off Facebook he randomly added me.Anyway he's sorta famous in my country as he's a professional rugby player.I play rugby too that's what got us talking alot through messages.Then after the first day he just gave me his mobile number without me having to ask which was strange I thought.Anyway we text and video Skype alot.Only problem I had to move out of the city he's living currently in due to rugby its only for four months.after four months I'll be living in the same city as him.He anyway is always calling me beautiful ,gorgeous and lots of flirting and telling me he loves me.Hes even made up cute nicknames for me.Like yesterday he texted me and I told him I was at dinner and he was like oh a date with what guy?I just told him it was a girl mate of mine.I couldn't understand why he asked.hes always the first to Skype and text me.All during Christmas he wanted to meet up with me but I was in the different city.So I said perhaps meet up in jan when I suggested that he had rugby matches in other countries which is true and understandable.But tonight I asked him if he would be around in feb as I've a week off rugby and he said he would be abroad with his friends to go to rugby matches he would be busy.The worst part is I'm developing feelings for him even though I've never met him in person :( He definitely is single he hasn't been in a relationship for the past year and a half he told me.hes not after sex cos he's actually a genuine guy.do you think he has feelings for me?or is he trying to avoid me?

My husband and I have been married for 12yrs and have been together for 17 years ( high school sweethearts). We have three beautiful children together. When we had our third I decided to stay home and care for the children because childcare was through the roof and my husband and I started a plumbing co., so I quit my position as an escrow assistant and have been helping with the business since then. About four years ago we really started to pick things up (thanks to me) after working my butt off and sacrificed shopping to save for business, we were doing great!! About two years ago it was all about work and kids to me and my husband just had money on his mind and we started distancing ourselfs from each other. On May 9th, we went to my brother n law's family Mother's Day party. They had some family members come from Mexico. There was this old loose skank dancing everywhere trying to get everyone's attention and I did feel a vibe with her looking at my husband but, I felt no intimidation by her so it did not even bother me. On June 16th my husband started asking me stupid questions like do you think well grow old together and I would respond of course then he would say I don't know. When he said that, I thought something's not right he has never responded like that before. After that, he would come home upset, never eat my dinner, yell at the kids and even smell like liquor. He would go straight into the patio or pool and start listening to his ipod. He would say some harsh things to me. I finally confronted him and asked if he was seeing someone else. He saidno. I found calling cards in his wallet and knew that he was seeing someone. He kept telling that I was crazy and I need to get my lazy *** and start working and that I think I'm too good for everyone, which by the way, I am about the most down to earth person you will ever meet. He basically made me feel worthless like if I was someone who sits on my *** all day and eats bon bons. He would make me cry out of shock that he was behaving the way he was. He told me he needed some time off and wanted to start his business in an other city with us but did not want us to go until everything was good. For me it was a matter of catching him. I knew he was not going to tell me and obviouly who ever he was seeing knew he was married and I knew that she wanted what I had. So I went to the bank and cleaned him out. After all, I deserved it after cleaning, cooking, working, caring for his children, involved in their school, not having my old friends, put my life on hold for his dreams to become a reality while mine stood on the back burner for what? I was not about to allow any skank get what I worked so hard for. He was upset but not suprised. I literally went into shock, I felt my life was over and my husband seemed like he did'nt care to take me to the hospital. He left out of town. Two days after being out of town he starts calling me like crazy wanting to come home and he was sorry for everything. I did not want him back. The children and I went to stay with my parents. I had time to think and started to think that sadly to say that I could not be at my own and it would be wise to let him come back so I could go to school and needed to start something for myself and was definetly not going to let someone take my place after all the hard work that I have but into MY FAMILY but I had to know who she was to be sure it was over. So I gave my husband the ultimatium tell me who it is and maybe I will let you back into my life. After he told me the whole story that it was the relative of my n law, whom lives in Mexico, basically he thought he really liked her but once he spent two nights with her after all the sex, he decided that was not what he wanted(selfish man).He is back and I sometimes feel our relationship is better and he has changed but so have I. Talk about humiliation. from having the relationship that everyone admirred turn to almost losing your husband to everyone having their say and comment about what happened and telling me what I should do. I feel that he got away with it to easy. I have had my chance to cheat on him numerous times, but think of the outcome would be. Our kids have gone through enough and do'nt need anymore drama but sometimes I feel that if I cheat, maybe it would make me feel better so I am asking you, since there is no emotion attached what do you think? Thank you for reading my long detail...

So I've known this guy for a 2months he's aged 22 and I'm 21.I got to know him off Facebook he randomly added me.Anyway he's sorta famous in my country as he's a professional rugby player.I play rugby too that's what got us talking alot through messages.Then after the first day he just gave me his mobile number without me having to ask which was strange I thought.Anyway we text and video Skype alot.Only problem I had to move out of the city he's living currently in due to rugby its only for four months.after four months I'll be living in the same city as him.He anyway is always calling me beautiful ,gorgeous and lots of flirting and telling me he loves me.Hes even made up cute nicknames for me.Like yesterday he texted me and I told him I was at dinner and he was like oh a date with what guy?I just told him it was a girl mate of mine.I couldn't understand why he asked.hes always the first to Skype and text me.All during Christmas he wanted to meet up with me but I was in the different city.So I said perhaps meet up in jan when I suggested that he had rugby matches in other countries which is true and understandable.But tonight I asked him if he would be around in feb as I've a week off rugby and he said he would be abroad with his friends to go to rugby matches he would be busy.The worst part is I'm developing feelings for him even though I've never met him in person :( He definitely is single he hasn't been in a relationship for the past year and a half he told me.hes not after sex cos he's actually a genuine guy.do you think he has feelings for me?or is he trying to avoid me?

My partner and I are planning a civil partnership. My sister is going to be my best man. We joked about her wearing a suit like Carrie did in Sex and the City 2. I think she would look really good in a suit, I've actually had her try on a couple suits, she's tried on a couple different styles but I'm thinking that taking her to a tailor might be the best idea so we can get something that fits her and looks gorgeous on her. Our mum and older brother came when she tried on a couple suits and they thought it was tacky to have her in a suit for the civil partnership especially as in my brother's words "It's already going to be overly gay.". She is all for wearing a suit. It's not like she will be in a suit the whole time anyway as she already have a dress for singing at the reception as she does some wedding singing in her free time and had offered to do it for free when I got engaged. Do you think it is tacky to put her in a suit? She's not butch. She's actually married and has kids with her husband. Out of my siblings and I, I am the only one who is gay.

im a girl...17 years old...almost 18 and my girlfriend is 30....we met online (not in real life yet) and we have everything in common and we love each other so much. yesterday i was talking to her online and we were talking about meeting each other in person (yes i already know that shes safe. she doesnt want sex cuz she was sexually abused by her previous girlfriend and shes been going through some bad stuff lately. also shes really shy like me.) and i said that we would have to wait until i am 18 first then she said she could pick me up when im ready. but the thing is i have to go to a community college for at least 2 years. i cant change it now cuz i already got accepted there. she said that she will wait for me and then she said that i could even move in with her if i want to. she said that she would love to have me there with her. i said i would love it and that would be awesome. after the community college i wanna go to a 4 year college near her so i could live with her. she lives in massachusetts. i wont say where but its a city somewhere near boston. i need to know some colleges near there that offers classes to be a dental hygienist. thats what im thinking of having as a job. but i gotta convince my parents to let me go to a college in massachusetts when i live in new york. i dont plan on telling them about my girlfriend until after i move in with her. my parents dont even know that i like girls yet. i cant tell them that either. so how can i convince my parents to let me go to a college in massachusetts? if i can go then they will probably make sure i have somewhere to stay. either an apartment or stay at the college. but i wanna stay with my girlfriend without telling them. so i was thinking of pretending to get a place to stay but after my parents leave, go to live with my girlfriend instead. i will be over 18 years old and when i move out they cant say no or make me do what they want anymore cuz i will be a legal adult not living with them anymore. also, how would i move in with her without my parents finding out? any ideas that will work are appreciated :) i dont want any answers that say this is a bad idea. we're in love and i wanna live with her. we're both ok with this. my parents are the ones that need convincing. im gonna live with her no matter what you people on here say. she will wait as long as it takes but i wanna leave home as soon as i can cuz i hate my family. just trust me...my family sucks. details may be added later. thanks. to Schwarzwald: no its not a trap..... i can tell she really loves me and we wanna be together forever and no i would never use her to escape my problems. i really love her and i wanna be with her forever. she wants that too. and yes i do hate my family. they constantly say how stupid i am and that i will never get a job cuz they dont think i can make it through college :'( and im gonna meet her first before i live with her once i moved in with her i was gonna tell my parents about my sexuality and then that i love her and i met her back in the beginning of october so its not like we just met yesterday or anything i love her because we have everything in common and shes the first person that was ever nice to me and then we kinda told our feelings to each other. she means everything to me and i mean everything to her. she helps me with my problems and i help her with her problems. we both have been hurt by many people in the past so the fact that we trust each other and all that other stuff i said means that we're in love and no i dont know what she looks like but if she was some creepy person (which shes not) then she wouldnt have been wasting her time talking to me everyday since we met. she even gets her work schedule changed for me so we can talk every night. and lots of people have found true love on the internet, met in person and even got married i met her on an anime website so i doubt that some sexual predator would waste their time on there and they probably dont even know what anime is. and someone like that wouldnt waste their time talking to someone with a life like mine everyday since october. i also know her friend and she tells me stuff about my girlfriend that shes too embarassed to say to anyone. like that her ex girlfriend beat her up and broke up with her. my girlfriend went through a depression after that happened and she ended up in the hospital. also i dont have friends and anyway...we started as friends then best friends then in love and now we're dating. this all happened between october and now so its not like we went from friends to girlfriends in 1 day. it took from october to mid-january to get to this level we had no plans of meeting until 2 days ago. before we were in love we planned on being friends forever. and anyway...why cant you people accept that not everyone on the internet is a pervert or something? there are honest people on there looking for friends or love online stalkers arent gonna wait years just to meet one specific person. they go after people soon after meeting them or they give up and look for someone else that will meet them

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I live in amsterdam. its part of the flag. i want to get a tattoo the three x's. according to my research, the x's came from the founding family of amsterdams coat of arms. its the symbol for the official city motto is Valor, Resolution, and Mercy. its also somehow a symbol for porn? sex? AND its also a symbol for the three threats to the city- ater, fire and plague. i like the last explanation best. but im planning on getting this tattood on my body so tell me. WHAT does it mean to you? ide like to know as amny possible opinions as possible! it could change were it goes, what i fill them with and alll that jazz. THANKYOU!

I've known this girl from August..i added her on Facebook and casually we find each other attractive and continued talking everyday..she lives in another city..after a month he came to my city..and finally we met each other...and after 3-4 days i kissed her...then she returned in her city...3 months passend and we were still talkin' with SMS...through phone..every night till the morning...after 3 months she came again..and we had sex...better say love cause it was full of feelings....now...4 months from the first date...we are still together..she loves me and i love her...and cause we have feelings 4 each other i dont wanna break this relationship...so i would like to read some suggestsions and advices to keep this relationship alive and not end it...thank u :) almost forgott...we se each other everyday in webcam...

Man charged with statutory rape in â€˜marriageâ€™ to 14-year-old girl By CHRISTINE VENDEL The Kansas City Star Vincent Mosby, a recent convert to Islam, signed a marriage contract and paid a dowry in a religious ceremony in August, police said. Mosby, 49, of Kansas City didnâ€™t legally wed his 14-year-old bride, however, because Missouri law wonâ€™t allow it without a judgeâ€™s order. Police said she was pressured into the union because her mother and stepfather thought she was going to be sexually active with a boy her age. Although the brideâ€™s stepfather arranged the â€œmarriage,â€ according to court records, other relatives frowned upon the union and told police in late August. The relatives also took the girl to protect her from further sexual abuse, according to court records. A relative told police that Mosby called and threatened violence if family members didnâ€™t â€œgive me back my wife in 72 hours,â€ according to court records. Two days later, on Sept. 9, someone fired three shots into the Kansas City home of the girlâ€™s aunt. No one was hit. Police arrested Mosby on Saturday for his alleged sexual relationship with the teenager. Jackson County prosecutors on Sunday filed one count of statutory rape. A judge set a $100,000 cash-only bond. Police said the girlâ€™s stepfather and mother became concerned that she was going to become sexually active, so the stepfather allegedly approached Mosby about marrying the girl. The girl was â€œstrongly encouragedâ€ to wed Mosby, police said. The stepfather, Mosby and the teen had several â€œsit downsâ€ before the stepfather arranged for a religious ceremony on Aug. 4 at her home, not far from the stepfatherâ€™s mosque. Two members of the mosque attended, but the bride â€œwas not allowed to be present,â€ court records said. She waited in her room upstairs. Her stepfather allegedly came upstairs after the ceremony, which consisted of prayers and a contract signing, to announce that she was married. Police say they have the â€œmarriage contractâ€ with the signatures of Mosby, the girl and the stepfather. The contract also notes the dowry the girl requested from Mosby â€” a watch and ring, which he told police he bought at Wal-Mart. Court records said the couple had sex three times in August in her home, while her mother and stepfather were home. The girl did not move in with Mosby. She stayed with her parents and kept in touch with Mosby through phone calls and text messages. In Islam, girls are considered adults when they hit puberty, and people in some parts of the world do marry young, said Mahnaz Shabbir of Stilwell, a past president of the Heartland Muslim Council.

We were frnds, with a little crush over each other.We confessed one day but also we had no future ahead because he already had his marriage fixed because of his conservative family background. We wanted to live in the moment and plus i was to leave this city soon too. So we were together for a while but then i decided to break up because this kind of relationship goes nowhere and before any one of us gets hurt, which here is most likely to be me. I had this feeling that accidentally it was a friends with benefits relationship (BUT NO SEX, I AM STILL A VIRGIN) which made me feel pathetic. I confronted him and we talked it out that it wasnt. But then at night i sent him a message, a good nite message with sweet things written but he didnt REPLY...!!!!! Arghhh...i am feeling annoyed coz of this...small thing i know but how could he ignore my message!!!! Plus he wsnt asleep he was on facebook, though not online on chat. HE SHOULDNT HAVE IGNORED MY MESSAGE...WATS UR OPINION?? How should i get my power back??

It always amazes me how many times this God orders the killing of innocent people even after the Ten Commandments said â€œThou shall not killâ€. For example, God kills 70,000 innocent people because David ordered a census of the people (1 Chronicles 21). God also orders the destruction of 60 cities so that the Israelites can live there. He orders the killing of all the men, women, and children of each city, and the looting of all of value (Deuteronomy 3). He orders another attack and the killing of â€œall the living creatures of the city: men and women, young, and old, as well as oxen sheep, and assesâ€ (Joshua 6). In Judges 21, He orders the murder of all the people of Jabesh-gilead, except for the virgin girls who were taken to be forcibly raped and married. When they wanted more virgins, God told them to hide alongside the road and when they saw a girl they liked, kidnap her and forcibly rape her and make her your wife! Just about every other page in the Old Testament has God killing somebody! In 2 Kings 10:18-27, God orders the murder of all the worshipers of a different god in their very own church! In total God kills 371,186 people directly and orders another 1,862,265 people murdered. The God of the Bible also allows slavery, including selling your own daughter as a sex slave (Exodus 21:1-11), child abuse (Judges 11:29-40 and Isaiah 13:16), and bashing babies against rocks (Hosea 13:16 & Psalms 137:9). This type of criminal behavior should shock any moral person. Murder, rape, pillage, plunder, slavery, and child abuse can not be justified by saying that some god says itâ€™s OK. If more people would actually sit down and read the Bible there would be a lot more atheists like myself. Jesus also promoted the idea that all men should castrate themselves to go to heaven: "For there are eunuchs, that were so born from their mother's womb: and there are eunuchs, that were made eunuchs by men: and there are eunuchs, that made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it." (Matthew 19:12 ASV) I don't know why anyone would follow the teachings of someone who literally tells all men to cut off their privates. The God of the Bible also was a big fan of ritual human sacrifice and animal sacrifice. And just in case you are thinking that the evil and immoral laws of the Old Testament are no longer in effect, perhaps you should read where Jesus makes it perfectly clear: "It is easier for Heaven and Earth to pass away than for the smallest part of the letter of the law to become invalid." (Luke 16:17 NAB)

Man charged with statutory rape in â€˜marriageâ€™ to 14-year-old girl By CHRISTINE VENDEL The Kansas City Star Vincent Mosby, a recent convert to Islam, signed a marriage contract and paid a dowry in a religious ceremony in August, police said. Mosby, 49, of Kansas City didnâ€™t legally wed his 14-year-old bride, however, because Missouri law wonâ€™t allow it without a judgeâ€™s order. Police said she was pressured into the union because her mother and stepfather thought she was going to be sexually active with a boy her age. Although the brideâ€™s stepfather arranged the â€œmarriage,â€ according to court records, other relatives frowned upon the union and told police in late August. The relatives also took the girl to protect her from further sexual abuse, according to court records. A relative told police that Mosby called and threatened violence if family members didnâ€™t â€œgive me back my wife in 72 hours,â€ according to court records. Two days later, on Sept. 9, someone fired three shots into the Kansas City home of the girlâ€™s aunt. No one was hit. Police arrested Mosby on Saturday for his alleged sexual relationship with the teenager. Jackson County prosecutors on Sunday filed one count of statutory rape. A judge set a $100,000 cash-only bond. Police said the girlâ€™s stepfather and mother became concerned that she was going to become sexually active, so the stepfather allegedly approached Mosby about marrying the girl. The girl was â€œstrongly encouragedâ€ to wed Mosby, police said. The stepfather, Mosby and the teen had several â€œsit downsâ€ before the stepfather arranged for a religious ceremony on Aug. 4 at her home, not far from the stepfatherâ€™s mosque. Two members of the mosque attended, but the bride â€œwas not allowed to be present,â€ court records said. She waited in her room upstairs. Her stepfather allegedly came upstairs after the ceremony, which consisted of prayers and a contract signing, to announce that she was married. Police say they have the â€œmarriage contractâ€ with the signatures of Mosby, the girl and the stepfather. The contract also notes the dowry the girl requested from Mosby â€” a watch and ring, which he told police he bought at Wal-Mart. Court records said the couple had sex three times in August in her home, while her mother and stepfather were home. The girl did not move in with Mosby. She stayed with her parents and kept in touch with Mosby through phone calls and text messages. In Islam, girls are considered adults when they hit puberty, and people in some parts of the world do marry young, said Mahnaz Shabbir of Stilwell, a past president of the Heartland Muslim Council.

I just can't figure myself out! I'm 26yrs old, Female, Sagittarius. I love EVERYTHING !! And when I say everything I mean everything, my taste and curiosity is never-ending, I go thru phases every single week. One week I want to be a hippie/bohemian/gypsy, next week I'm into clubbing trance music, next gangster, next old school... And I listen to every type of music you can think of.. depending on the phase i'm in. & I love it, I'm very happy this way. This week I am in the bohemian phase. I started belly dance classes and looking up zen/bohemian styles to decorate my apartment Im getting in August. I only hope I don't change phases by then because I love this phase. Love hippie and the 60s.. I just feel like no one really knows the REAL me. I'm a reserved corporate "office girl" by day and by night I'm this crazy sensual weed smoking person! LOL Here's an idea. My Pandora is custom fitting here's the music I range from: Love Songs Radio Bryan Adams, Edwin McCain, Aerosmith, Adele Buddha Bar Radio Yasmine, Nicos, Tulku, Karunesh Led Zeppelin Radio Jimi Hendrix, The Rolling Stones, Pink Floyd, Cream Bob Marley Radio Cultura Profetica, Bob Marley Vs. Lee Scratch Perry, Ziggy Marley & The Melody Makers, Stephen Marley Blues Guitar Legends Radio Stevie Ray Vaughan, B.B. King, B.B. King & Eric Clapton, Albert King & Stevie Ray Vaughan MGMT Radio Phoenix, Foster The People, Modest Mouse, Peter Bjorn And John Taylor Swift Radio The Band Perry, Carrie Underwood, Lady Antebellum, Rascal Flatts Depeche Mode Radio New Order, Duran Duran, The Smiths, Tears For Fears Inna Radio Edward Maya & Vika Jigulina, Alexandra Stan, Edward Maya, Nadia Ali Cafe Del Mar Radio Push, Nikolai, Lolo, Deadmau5 Frank Sinatra (Holiday) Radio Dean Martin (Holiday), Nat King Cole (Holiday), Bing Crosby (Holiday), Ella Fitzgerald (Holiday) Soundtrack Radio Cee-Lo Green, Al Jarreau, Aaron Neville, Greg Nagy Framing Hanley Radio Breaking Benjamin, 10 Years, The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus, 30 Seconds to Mars Breathe Carolina Radio Hellogoodbye, The Downtown Fiction, 3Oh!3, Metro Station Christmas Radio Dean Martin (Holiday), Bobby Helms (Holiday), Burl Ives (Holiday), Brenda Lee (Holiday) Gipsy Kings Radio Ottmar Liebert, Jesse Cook, Armik, Johannes Linstead 90's Music Aaliyah, Xscape, Monica, Mary J. Blige Classical Music Hella, Lightning Bolt, The Flying Luttenbachers, Melk The G6-49 R&B Trey Songz, Chris Brown, Plies, Drake Old Skool Soul Al Green, Bobby Womack, Teddy Pendergrass, Earth, Wind & Fire Indie The Xx, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Florence + The Machine, Phantogram Movie Soundtrack Carter Burwell, London Music Works, The Twilight Saga: New Moon (Film Score), Michael Dulin Party Muzik New Boyz, Cobra Starship, Dev, Mike Posner Christian Radio Kirk Franklin, Marvin Sapp, Kierra Sheard, Kirk Franklin's Nu Nation The Oldies But Goodies (Remind Me Of You) Radio The Penguins, Johnnie & Joe, The Five Satins, The Paradons Dirty South Radio Outkast, UGK, YoungBloodz, Trick Daddy Young Jeezy Radio Lil Wayne, T.I., Rick Ross, DJ Khaled 90's Hip Hop Dr. Dre, Ice Cube, Snoop Dogg, Bone Thugs-N-Harmony Work, Focus, Study Lady Pop Alternative Radio Country Radio Dance Radio My Blog contains these interests: BEAUTIFUL WOMEN * sexuality * PORN * passion * sensual * ART * alcohol * luxury * glamorous * vintage * cultural * GUNS * hippie * buddha * spirituality * flowers * quotes * funny * movies and tv * 60s * weed * fitness * mexicana * europe * models * gangster * poetry * independent films * foreign * city * decor * cartoons * food * nudes * sex * armenian * russian * paris * london * san francisco * love * country * black and white * country music * disney * pixar * hilarious * greek * arabic * muslim * christian * tolerance * freedom * peace * ZEN * serenity * lebanese * roses * God * Jesus * psychology * Sorry it's so long i wanted to be sure to get all the music in there. But I guess I should have laid it out differently. Thanks for the answers. It's definitely hard to explain yourself over the internet and try to keep it short. But I only ask here so I can get honest opinions and not from people that know me that wouldn't want to hurt my feelings or whatever. So I wouldn't say Im a poser wannabe. I don't ever follow a crowd, in fact I can't stand that. I change often and usually gain people following what I'm doing. Until I move on. There are things I am NOT into, politics, negative people, work etc. I don't talk fast or loud, I am very soft spoken and come across as shy... I guess, unique, eclectic and weird best describe me.

Okay, I am a 17 year old girl who had sex for the second time in my live, both times with my current boyfriend whom I have dated for a year. both times it was protected. But I can not use the pill because of a disease I have that makes the possibility of getting a stroke or heart failure very high. But after the second time, I started fearing/having paranoia about being pregnant. I know it was protected but some times things go wrong anyway. My menstruation is late and I have, not swollen breast but they are sore. I have a lot of discharge and feel very tired all the time but I don't throw up or have any change in what kind of food i like. I have this constant fear of being pregnant and it's really frightening I don't want a child. I know this might just be paranoia but this is the last thing I want in the world. I want to take a pregnancy test, but I live in s very small community that is very unforgiving and were it can be very hard to buy one unseen and the word would spread to my parents, the last thing I want. I will go to the big city to buy a test just wanted to hear you people out for advice and help.

I really like this guy, and I'm really in love with him. He says he's really in love with me, but it's kind of declined since the beginning. We used to have a relationship just over a year ago, but we broke up because he felt we were too young to be in love. Being only 14 and 15 at the time. I was so distraught for 6 months, I felt as though my life had been ripped out of me (I really liked him, and when people say you can't be in love at that age, they are wrong. First loves) So 6 months later he came in contact with me and told me he had made a mistake, and I felt wanted, and as if that "if you really love someone, you have to let them go, and if they come back then they love you too" saying is true. However, when we used to argue, when i got closed to breaking up with him, he'd cry and beg me not to. Which i liked, even though I had no intentions of breaking up with him. He used to buy me flowers, write me really long letters about why he loved me, and how beautiful I am. He was so head over heels. Its now 6 months later, and he never ever does any of that stuff. Its swapped around, i do that stuff. Its mad, it makes me feel unwanted and unloved, and i always argue with him because of it. I know this is mad, and so unhealthy, because I've read about it. But I want someones opinion on how i feel and how to make it stop, i just want someone to say to me, look, its okay, everyone gets it, this is what you can do. Im so bad at accepting things and moving on, because I am a thinker, and it lingers in my head for so long about everything. I hang on every word said to me by every person, and I take everything so personal - that's my characteristic, and I admit, there is no changing that. However, when we are out walking about town or just chilling in places, I always feel like he's looking at other girls. And when I catch him, it feels like he's slitting my heart out and stomping on it. I cry all the time because of it. A few months ago, he showed me naked pictures of girls we know, because it was quite funny. I laughed with him, and told him to delete them because the idea of it made me quite uncomfortable. Then a few months later i found out he didn't delete them. I don't know why, but this made me really insecure, and just hate him so much. Then I was asleep, and he was on the laptop, and i went on the laptop to look at bustime tables, and found that he had been looking at this girls body on facebook, she was in her bikini and stuff. It made me so angry I get angry when he doesn't fight to be with me, and he just shrugs his shoulders... i just go so so so emotionally involved with my emotions that they emotionally are just so emotional haha And its also brought me to the point where i don't like him watching music videos, and i call every girl with a little bit of skin on show a ****... I get depressed watching sex scenes, or sex and the city when they talk about how men cheat, men like sex, men can't help themselves I'm losing him, and even though he says im not, i know i am. But what the hell do i do? Ahhh i can't descrive it all on here, i just want someone to tell me what to do, because i feel like i'll never get out of this. And I have a horrible feeling, i feel so depressed I know this is long, but i need help really bad, so please helpe me nad be serious because its getting really bad! Thnak you xxxxxx

Is this typical of muslim parents or is it just these sick people? Man charged with statutory rape in â€˜marriageâ€™ to 14-year-old girl By CHRISTINE VENDEL The Kansas City Star Vincent Mosby, a recent convert to Islam, signed a marriage contract and paid a dowry in a religious ceremony in August, police said. Mosby, 49, of Kansas City didnâ€™t legally wed his 14-year-old bride, however, because Missouri law wonâ€™t allow it without a judgeâ€™s order. Police said she was pressured into the union because her mother and stepfather thought she was going to be sexually active with a boy her age. Although the brideâ€™s stepfather arranged the â€œmarriage,â€ according to court records, other relatives frowned upon the union and told police in late August. The relatives also took the girl to protect her from further sexual abuse, according to court records. A relative told police that Mosby called and threatened violence if family members didnâ€™t â€œgive me back my wife in 72 hours,â€ according to court records. Two days later, on Sept. 9, someone fired three shots into the Kansas City home of the girlâ€™s aunt. No one was hit. Police arrested Mosby on Saturday for his alleged sexual relationship with the teenager. Jackson County prosecutors on Sunday filed one count of statutory rape. A judge set a $100,000 cash-only bond. Police said the girlâ€™s stepfather and mother became concerned that she was going to become sexually active, so the stepfather allegedly approached Mosby about marrying the girl. The girl was â€œstrongly encouragedâ€ to wed Mosby, police said. The stepfather, Mosby and the teen had several â€œsit downsâ€ before the stepfather arranged for a religious ceremony on Aug. 4 at her home, not far from the stepfatherâ€™s mosque. Two members of the mosque attended, but the bride â€œwas not allowed to be present,â€ court records said. She waited in her room upstairs. Her stepfather allegedly came upstairs after the ceremony, which consisted of prayers and a contract signing, to announce that she was married. Police say they have the â€œmarriage contractâ€ with the signatures of Mosby, the girl and the stepfather. The contract also notes the dowry the girl requested from Mosby â€” a watch and ring, which he told police he bought at Wal-Mart. Court records said the couple had sex three times in August in her home, while her mother and stepfather were home. The girl did not move in with Mosby. She stayed with her parents and kept in touch with Mosby through phone calls and text messages. In Islam, girls are considered adults when they hit puberty, and people in some parts of the world do marry young, said Mahnaz Shabbir of Stilwell, a past president of the Heartland Muslim Council.

this was way back in 2004. 2 yrs into the relationship, I asked him if he sees a future for us and he couldn't answer me. Long story short, I ended things, it was hard but I let him walk and this was in 2006. We somehow maintained communication (emails, occasional birthday greetings etc). In mid-2009, out of the blue, I got a phone call from him, he told me he was in a car accident that nearly killed him. I asked him why was he calling me? He said he was calling the people that was important to him and that when he's all better, he will come and see me. We got back together briefly by the end of 2009. Again, I had to break up with him again because I feel we're back to square 1, nothing's changed. Though I must say that this time around, talk of having a family got in the mix but I still feel that he still hasn't shown me that he's ready to take things in the next level. This was our 2nd breakup, I was totally devastated but I picked myself up and forced myself to move on. This time, we didn't maintain communication, it's too painful for me to be friends as I love the guy so much. Last Sunday is my birthday, I woke up and check my emails and he sent me an email. It was just a short message greeting me on my birthday and asking how I was but in the end of the email he says that he still thinks of me often and wonder how I was doing and that he hopes it's ok to keep in touch?? Seriously, WTF that does that mean? I am not going to lie, I still have feelings for him. I cried when I saw that he sent me an email, I can't help but I got flooded with emotions. Obviously I am still single and still have feelings for the man, otherwise I couldn't care less. You could say that I love him as Carrie is to Mr. Big in the tv series Sex and the City. Anyway, eventually I did manage to reply to his email. I told him how I was and some news about what was I up to the last 2 years and I also told him that I was confused about what he means about keeping in touch? If he means that he wants to pick up where we left off 2 years ago? I had sent this email on sunday and he still hasn't replied to it. I'm baffled guys, why does men do this sort of thing? I know you say men are just simple creatures, but I can't figure out why would he keep on saying these things, contacting me after years of non-communication but not follow through? I just turned 39 and he's 48, I think we're too old to be playing games at this age? I just want to hear a man's take on this, maybe it can somehow enlighten me...co'z I'm in total dark when it comes to this man..he's my achilles heel! Can't think straight...! Thank you people!

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